You wanna know what I personally find ridiculous and shit about most married couples?

You wanna know what I personally find ridiculous and shit about most married couples? 

They expect "love" alone should keep a romantic relationship strong. It's almost like they feel entitled to having their partner be with them forever and be totally fine with whatever type of sexual affection they get (or none at all!) because it's "love" that matters most.

But it's not only love that keeps a strong romantic relationship...

It's also attractive. 

And love and attraction are separate things. 

Attraction leads to desire which leads to sex (or other forms of romantic affection). 

And sex is the only thing that sets you apart as a couple from being friendly roommates. 

So you definitely need both.

And when the attraction is fading, I believe it's important to call it out and be honest with your partner, so that you're both on the same page and you know how to come to a conclusion together.

It just doesn't make sense to stay silent, build resentment and live a miserable life under the same roof. 

I published yesterday's podcast episode on this topic and someone made a comment saying, "They won't be happy to hear you telling them you're not attracted to them". 

... Obviously! lol No one wants to hear that. 

But we need to stop being so delicate and defensive in our communication. Especially with the one person we're supposed to love and support for the rest of our lives! 

Stop worrying about fearing it will make her unhappy and know that hard conversations are what make your relationship end immediately or make them SO much stronger (if you're both willing to put in the work).

The goal is not to make each other happy 24/7.

The goal is to be the best team possible and grow in love and attraction that makes sense with both your goals as a couple.

Sometimes that requires temporary sadness or suffering... which is still way better than a lifetime of individual internal suffering. Don't ya think?

Always say what needs to be said for the strength of your relationship long-term. And come from a place of love when you do it. 

If you need help understanding/learning how to come from a place of love during a sex conflict, apply to work with me. I will teach you one of the most underrated skills and it will make your relationship and sex life so much more enjoyable. It could even save it from falling apart.

Have a Sexy Saturday ;)

Jacob M

The Father's Darkest Hour

 The Father's Darkest Hour

A devoted father, John once had a loving family and a comfortable home. But after his wife's affair and abandonment, his world crumbled. His children, manipulated by their mother, rejected him, labelling him a "deadbeat dad." The pain was unbearable.

With no support and nowhere to turn, John lost his job and eventually, his home. He found himself on the streets, struggling to survive. The harsh reality of homelessness and the constant reminder of his family's rejection pushed him to the edge.

One night, sitting on a bench, John contemplated ending his life. He felt like a failure, a burden to society, and a father who had lost everything. Tears streaming down his face, he wondered if his children would even miss him.

Just as he was about to give up, a stranger approached him. "Hey, friend, are you okay?" John opened up about his story, and the stranger listened intently. "You are not alone, John. Your children's rejection does not define your worth. You are a father, a human deserving of love and respect."

John broke down, and for the first time in months, he felt a glimmer of hope. The stranger helped him find a local shelter and support services. John began rebuilding his life, realizing that he was not alone and that his story could inspire others.

God Bless us All...

Today the Church celebrates the Feast of Pentecost, celebrated on the 50th and final day of the Easter season.

 “If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will pray to the Father, and he will give you another Counselor, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive because it neither sees him nor knows him; you know him, for he dwells with you, and will be in you."

– John 14:15-17

Dear All,

 

Today the Church celebrates the Feast of Pentecost, celebrated on the 50th and final day of the Easter season.

 

After the Ascension of Jesus into Heaven, the eleven remaining Apostles returned to Jerusalem. Acts 1:14 says, “All these with one accord devoted themselves to prayer, together with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brethren.” During this time, the Apostles chose a replacement for Judas Iscariot. They cast lots between two men, and the lot fell on Matthias.

After nine days of prayer, the Holy Spirit descended upon the disciples. They heard a sound like a “mighty wind,” and “tongues as of fire” were resting on their heads.

Even though, just a few weeks earlier, Peter had denied Christ three times, he courageously proclaimed the Gospel. That day, three thousand people believed in Christ and were received into His Church.

God Be With You All...

Jacob M

Let us pray that we can open our hearts to the Holy Spirit so that an abiding peace will stay in our hearts despite any hardship or worry that comes into our lives.

Peace be with you!

Today's prayers are for Peace.

Let us pray that we can open our hearts to the Holy Spirit so that an abiding peace will stay in our hearts despite any hardship or worry that comes into our lives.

Here are the prayers for today:

Day 3 - Novena to the Holy Spirit

Peace

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Let us bow down in humility at the power and grandeur of the Holy Spirit. Let us worship the Holy Trinity and give glory today to the Paraclete, our Advocate.

O Holy Spirit, by Your power, Christ was raised from the dead to save us all. By Your grace, miracles are performed in Jesus’ name. By Your love, we are protected from evil. And so, we ask with humility and a beggar’s heart for Your gift of Peace within us.

The Saints were tempted, attacked and accused by the devil who is the destroyer of peace. When we are accused by the devil, come to our aid as our Advocate and give us Peace that lasts through all trials!

Holy Spirit we ask for the grace of [Mention your intention here].

Amen.

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and enkindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And You shall renew the face of the earth.

O, God, who by the light of the Holy Spirit, did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy His consolations, through Christ Our Lord,

Amen.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Peace be with you! Each day of this novena, we will pray for one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit. The fruits of the Spirit are, "perfections that the Holy Spirit forms in us as the first fruits of eternal glory." (Catechism of the Catholic Church)

 

Peace be with you!

Each day of this novena, we will pray for one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit.

The fruits of the Spirit are, "perfections that the Holy Spirit forms in us as the first fruits of eternal glory." (Catechism of the Catholic Church)

Today's prayers are for Joy.

Joy is one of those signs that shows the world that there is something different about followers of Christ. So, let us pray today for a greater Joy that will shine through to the rest of the world!

You can post your own prayer intentions here. We're praying for you!

Here are the prayers for today:

Day 2 - Novena to the Holy Spirit

Joy

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Let us bow down in humility at the power and grandeur of the Holy Spirit. Let us worship the Holy Trinity and give glory today to the Paraclete, our Advocate.

O Holy Spirit, by Your power, Christ was raised from the dead to save us all. By Your grace, miracles are performed in Jesus’ name. By Your love, we are protected from evil. And so, we ask with humility and a beggar’s heart for Your gift of Joy within us.

All of the Saints are marked with an uncompromisable Joy in times of trial, difficulty and pain. Give us, O Holy Spirit, the Joy that surpasses all understanding that we may live as a witness to Your love and fidelity!

Holy Spirit we ask for the grace of [Mention your intention here].

Amen.

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and enkindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And You shall renew the face of the earth.

O, God, who by the light of the Holy Spirit, did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy His consolations, through Christ Our Lord,

Amen.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

God Bless You All...

Jacob M

Peace be with you! The Novena to the Holy Spirit for Pentecost is actually the original novena, the very first novena. After Jesus ascended into Heaven, the disciples prayed for nine days for the Holy Spirit, for "the promise of my Father." (Luke 24:49).

 

Peace be with you!

The Novena to the Holy Spirit for Pentecost is actually the original novena, the very first novena. 

After Jesus ascended into Heaven, the disciples prayed for nine days for the Holy Spirit, for "the promise of my Father." (Luke 24:49). 

And on the tenth day, they received the Holy Spirit, on Pentecost Sunday!

As we pray to the Holy Spirit, like the disciples did, let's trust God with our prayer intentions. You can post your own prayer intentions here, and we invite you to pray for others that you see there too. We're praying for you!

Here are the prayers for today:

Day 1 - Novena to the Holy Spirit

Charity

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Let us bow down in humility at the power and grandeur of the Holy Spirit. Let us worship the Holy Trinity and give glory today to the Paraclete, our Advocate.

O Holy Spirit, by Your power, Christ was raised from the dead to save us all. By Your grace, miracles are performed in Jesus’ name. By Your love, we are protected from evil. And so, we ask with humility and a beggar’s heart for Your gift of Charity within us.

The great charity of all the hosts of Saints is only made possible by your power, O Divine Spirit. Increase in me, the virtue of charity that I may love as God loves with the selflessness of the Saints.

Holy Spirit we ask for the grace of [Mention your intention here].

Amen.

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and enkindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And You shall renew the face of the earth.

O, God, who by the light of the Holy Spirit, did instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by the same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever enjoy His consolations, through Christ Our Lord,

Amen.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

I ask Jesus to seal me in His most Precious Blood

 

I ask Jesus to seal me in His most Precious Blood

against any and all incursions of the evil one,

in particular against any clinging, familial, familiar or retaliating spirits,

in the name of the Father and of the Son + and of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

(If you have blessed oil or water sign yourself on the forehead with it now)

Word for today: Verse: Isaiah 66:1 This is what the LORD says: ‘Heaven is My throne, and the earth is My footstool.’

Verse:   Isaiah 66:1

This is what the LORD says: ‘Heaven is My throne, and the earth is My footstool.’

- The Lord has the final authority over all things.

- He is still in control of heaven and earth no matter how things may appear.

- At the same time He knows what is happening in your life.

- Give Him the right of way to rule and reign over your situation and circumstances.

PRAYER: Lord, I recognise that You are still on the throne. No situation in the world today is beyond Your reach and no situation that I may be facing is too difficult for You. Rule and reign in my life today, I pray. Amen.

Have an awesome Thursday.

Kind Regards

God Bless You All

Jacob M

Binding Prayer in Jesus Name

 

Prayers Of Spiritual Protection